I am happy to say that I have found a shampoo alternative that works for me. The are many options out there such as the no 'poo method, which consist putting cornstarch and baking soda in your hair then brushing it out, or a gentle soap such as castile. While people all over the internet swear by the no 'poo method I wanted something more of a liquid but not to the point of soap, even a safe and gentle one. So what is a girl to do?
The answer I have found that works for me is soap nut/berry liquid and baking soda. Soap nuts are a berry that grows on a tree in the southwest Asia region. The flesh of the berries have a natural soap like property. I will dedicate a post to soap nuts in the future but there is tons of info out there if you want to look them up in the mean time.
My process is pretty simple.
Ingredients
15 soap nuts (they come pitted and dried)
4 cups water
1 cup baking soda
You can make smaller or larger batches but I would stick with the 4 parts liquid to 1 part baking soda ratio as it is the ratio that I, so far, have found works best.
Step 1
Bring the water to a boil in a pan with plenty of extra room. Trust me, from experience you will be glad for the extra room when the suds start.
Step 2
Put the soap nuts in the water turn the heat down to a simmer and cover with a vented lid. Let the soap nuts simmer for 30 minutes.
There will be a soap nut scent that at least fills the kitchen. The like-ability of the scent tends to very much depend on the person. I find it different but not good or bad.
Step 3
Uncover and remove the pan from the heat. Let the liquid cool until it is room temperature. Strain out the soap nut pieces and store in whatever container you like. I use mason jars and then put it my shampoo bottle as needed, but anything should work.
Step 4
Add in the baking soda. This will not dissolve. I just shake to mix before putting it on my hair. I also find this creates a little bit of suds that keep the not so 'poo from running off my head as much.
Step 5
Wash your hair. You should not need to wash your hair as much as normal with the not so 'poo. I suggest just waiting until you hit a day when you think (when looking at your hair) maybe today was the next day I should have washed it. Do this a couple of time and you will get a feel of how long you can go in-between washings.
Tips
This does not lather. There is very little that suds or lathers in nature. What you get out of traditional products are chemicals that have been added to produce the effect we have been told to expect.
Put whatever not so 'poo you will not use in a week or two in the freezer. From what I have read soap nut liquid will spoil. I tend to trust this advise and do not chance it. If you want to try it out for yourself it apparently will smell like it has gone bad when it has and that is how you know.
Traditional shampoo of course has tons of scary stuff in it. Even the "natural" brands are not so good. There is another reason to stop using regular shampoo though. It strips all the natural oils from your scalp and hair. You might be thinking, well yeah that is why I shampoo, but those oils are created by our bodies for a reason and you hair needs them. The more you over strip those oils away the more your body freaks out and over produces more.
With traditional shampoo I had to wash everyday as I have an oily scalp. There was no getting around it. With the not so 'poo I am only washing every other day. This may still seem like a lot but think about it. I cut my washing in half. I can even push a third day with only looking a little oily and it not being to the point my hair is flat and weighed down by oil.
I do not condition but if you feel you need something try apple cider vinegar. You can just poor it on and leave it or rinse it out. The vinegar scent should go away as it dries if you decide to not rinse it out.
I purchased my soap nuts as the local natural food store and you should be able to find them at yours. If not you can always find them online. I do not recommend the powders and they normally have other things added to them.
If you try this please leave a comment and let me know how it goes. No matter if it is good, bad or ugly.